I can't even stand what is going on here. My husband has been gone a month and whenever he talks to me, which is rare, it's not very nice. He is uncomfortable around me because of the hurtful things that he is thinking. That is what he tells me. I am trying to stop the pursuit and I did for like three days. I am so worried that he is not going to come back to our home and our family. He won't get any help, no counseling or anything. Our problems are so small that they can be solved by marriage therapy. Hmm, I'm so sad today. I guess his personal problems are larger and it must be making him think that all the problems are larger frown Thank you. I just needed to type it out.