I think it is good advice.

My W and I didn't communicate for over 2 months when she left me. When we finally started talking again I did tell her I wasn't ignoring her and I did not contact her because I knew she needed time away from me. She seemed appreciative of that, but I did it for myself as much as for her because I had to get her out of my life emotionally as much as possible (which wasn't much TBH). I also knew from DB pursuing is a big taboo to get the spouse back.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day