i spoke with my therapist and she agreed that detachment was a good idea at this point as long as detachment behavior is what sort of led me down this path. She said to let my wife know that I was just giving her space to breathe and that I was not ignoring her for the sake of ignoring her. Does this sound like good advise?


Me: 46, WAW/WW:44
Kids-D 12y/o
T: 20
M: 15
BD: 9-20-16