Hi Gwen

Your H and my W could be related.
I know for a fact both are in MLC
It's too similar our sitchs that it can't be anything else

Add in some other mental health issues and they have no choice to run.

Your girls like mine aren't blind and our MLc'rs are aware of this. So they will avoid, can't face them in hopes that one day they will just forget and accept them as is.

My girls won't. I've always told them to open their hearts, apologize and forgive.
Talk about it and don't put it up Ina shelf for a later time. My MLC'r doesn't fall into that plan, until she doesn't the girls will avoid.

You are an amazing mom. Keep it up

Irish


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015