Sorry you struggled at your anniversary Kyh. I guess it's one of those things that mean nothing to our MLCers but hurt us as hell. I'm not sure if there is a right or wrong way to deal with it, I try to ignore all anniversaries out of principle now, and try to concentrate on new milestones.
Try not to think of the OM please. Nothing good or productive can come out of it. Easier said than done, I know. A few days ago my "friend" that H has an EA with updated her Facebook photo and the jealousy I felt looking at that photo made me feel nauseous. Thankfully I'm over that now, but it upsets me that she has that power over me, even if it is for a few hours / days. Concentrate on you and your happiness.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
