I'm sorry Feyth. When you talk to H, I wouldn't let him know what you know. If he tells you he has filed, aim for grace. Let him know you are sorry to hear that and D isn't what you want. But if it his choice, you won't stand in his way. Aim to avoid any larger discussion about whys etc.

It's good you have a L ready & can calmly move forward from here with due support.

You have come a long way already & will also get through this Sweetie xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus