Ok... I'm thinking a lot.

I guess the silver lining is the fact that I found out that he officially filed before telling me. So with that, I can at least be prepared for tomorrow.

I would like some advice, though. If you were me, what would you say? I'm trying to think of the right approach. I could do a complete 180 and be a jerk and say, "mazel tov, you have finally found what will make you happy!!!" Or........ Something a little more DB appropriate smile. I'm just not sure how I should show up. What do you think?


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16