I think if we started a club many of us would have the same stories...it would be like ground hog day. It's great to hear those that can either stitch things back together or can move on and be nice to each other I fear I won't be one of them and will be in the same boat with you trumpet. I am responsible for ISIS, Trump and Hilary and global warming. Alot to shoulder :-)
Sorry to hear its still tough sledding for you but I understand the feelings you are going thru and I actually feel the same as I really don't want any interaction anymore And can understand the church issues....not sure how she even goes based on the situation...geez.
I am trying to limit any interaction which is hard with my daughter and dog
She again today messed up a handoff , was late, blamed me, got in an argument in front of my duaghter so I walked away and left. I won't be bullied , pushed around or stomped on anymore by her.
The positive is that my duaghter and I could not be closer...our bonding has increased and she loves being with me as I actually spend time with her...not just dump her in front of a tv like her mom :-) makes me sad
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....