Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Cherry]

I don't think you would have to file, just more of a seperation agreement. I'd speak with a L first and explain you don't want to file but you were wondering how you could protect your assets. I totally get what you mean about rocking the boat, but it is quite important to protect yourself. She's shown herself to be quite unreliable financial wise frittering away money and the unpaid parking ticket you kept getting through.

I think it's admirable that you don't want to leave her high and dry. My wh hasn't took a moment to think about me or S.