Taking the first step...

[Coly23]

Thanks Job, that does sound like my H, stuffing all his emotions deep down. He never liked to talk about his feelings or tell me if there was anything I did that annoyed him. He just put up with it silently to my detriment.

And I think he is a droplet for sure as he doesn't come over very much. How does this effect their ability to come back for good? I assume a drop-in is more likely to make a smoother return or does it not make a difference?

Altair, so glad you are coming over here and interesting that H is in contact with you every day. I wonder if he feels your famililiarity is a comfort to him....

I will continue to read as much as possible Job. I actually feel coming on to this board has already been a great help. Thank you!