W fears D will start to keep secrets from W and that is not the type of relationship W wants with D. I told W that I do not wish for that to happen. W told me D is worried and doesn't trust me (LOL-ing LT0402!) because the one day I didn't pick her up from school...wtf. so W said D is having a hard time adjusting that I changed so drastically for the better but that D isn't sure just yet & she's waiting for me to "fall back".
cheesyt, it's like I'm reading my own thread! Interesting to hear someone getting this from their W. Don't listen to her, all of your changes are awesome and if it makes her mad that you have changed then that's her issue, not yours.
As you know, my W continues to say that she's angrier now that I've shown I can change. We are improving ourselves for us and our Ds. If it makes our Ws angrier to see that we can change, that's their issue to work through.
Don't let all of this get you down. I believe you'd been running, are you still doing that daily? Exercise, exercise, exercise! You're already great at the GAL, so no need to lecture there. I think your next step is continuing to focus on you and let your W deal w/ her own stuff. Hard to do, but you're doing a good job of it right now.
You have a lot to be happy and proud of Cheesyt. hang in there!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
Interesting to hear someone getting this from their W. Don't listen to her, all of your changes are awesome and if it makes her mad that you have changed then that's her issue, not yours. 