Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

Thanks PsySara

Are you a psychologist? Psy - medical school.....

TBH. It's a hard one. Guys usually dominate financials, not always. They pull the rug and the wife is screwed. I don't condone this - just walking and not paying what's fair. I know that my W could go for an awful lot of money and a healthy monthly sum.

I wont avoid what is fair. Walking and leaving them is wrong. But even if I pay what is fair she will struggle comparatively. However, I will pick up the pieces for the kids and pay for lovely holidays, treats, clothes etc.

We will see.

Surfer.