Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

AndyP, LT, Cherry.

Thank you for your helpful and kind words.

I am in pondering mode. Saw W briefly between doing things. She picked something up for the kids. Kids are totally 'A Okay'. I am going to mull over all this advice. Thing is TBH, I don't want to rock the boat but it's really not going anywhere this and W is having too easy a ride of it all. I should be seeing her putting offers in for house and talking to me about it. I think I need to suggest she does if hats what she wants. I will tell her I don't want this but if that is where it is going we both need to face that. It's the adult way to do things. Still pondering though.

Thanks again.

Surfer.