Divorce final this week

[rich4j]

Tim
Daughters--love of your life. Keep the focus there and continue on yourself too as this will come thru to not only your STBX but others of any changes.

I got to the site and DB too late but to me it is a bit counterintuitive but I think it works for alot...not all. Just another approach in my opinion on the delicate dance of marriage and relationships.

What I have gotten out of all of this is to focus on you and what makes you happy? You didn't give much detail on how you got to where you both are but many of the stories are the same. We drift, lose the person we were in the past in terms of fun, happiness and hobbies...and get in a mode that doesn't continue to keep the connection together.

its great you are not hostile and have a good relationship. if you both got to this point because of just losing the connection (not an affair) than maybe you can reconcile in the future. I forgot who posted this but divorce is just a piece of paper. treat it that way and you will be fine...