Newbie here again. I am going crazy giving my spouse time and space to decide what "he" wants out of life. We decided on Monday that we would give him time and space. Since that time he has texted me every day for some silly reason to do with our kids, 13 and 17. I have replied in kind but didn't press for more conversation. I am trying to get a life and am working very hard at it, but the problem is is that when you have spent so much time with your spouse and you always had them to talk to, it is very difficult to just go cold turkey and not talk anymore. Just needed to write it down. Thanks.