Hi Cali Happy belated birthday. I am one that's glad you are sticking around. Science experiment or not. As for your divorce, mine was necessary. I really think the MLCr needs to end it all. No ties. IN my own sitch my XW is more friendly since we are officially divorced. Not that I am looking for her as a friend but it eased the tension quite a bit.
Hang tough my friend. Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015