I see you bumped up trustingfaiths thread and just to update since I know her personally.
Mr tf is still in the basement and still in MLC. He has shown signs of emerging from his funk, like starting to help to parent the children and reconnecting with the dog. However he is still in MLC, trustingfaith is still doing well and living her own life to the fullest. She has followed job's and cat04 advice, the basic point is to demonstrate how long MLC can take. This is a marathon not a sprint.
