Hives are definitely caused by stress, especially prolonged stress. Your immune system crashes and those prone to hives usually break out around those times. You WW looks to be constantly looking for ego kibbles from others, very co-dependent behavior. You're doing great with firm boundaries.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3