Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[PsySara]

I have no advice on the financial aspect, I am completely independent financially from WH and he does pay the children's tuition. I pay my rent, electric/utilities/nanny's fee/car payment/ and my own debt from medical school. It's a good thing I have my own financial means as WH may just decide to up and abandon us, he was making sounds baout that last night.

We can't control the chaos that they are making but we can control how we react. I have begun to voew my WH as someone not mentally healthy right now. It helps me put a barrier between us and for me not to take his anger personally. Frankly I think he looks for reasons to be angry at me so I am making sure he doesn't have a visible target much. Keep up the good work, brother!