Ooh wee, did she blow up! I think sometimes they want to bait us into arguments to justify their reasons to leave. So well done for not taking the bait! You absolutely haven't done anything wrong, like you say, you cannot control what sil says. Nor do you have to cut ties, you became a part of the family and part of your nieces lives. My mil really disagrees with wh right now, and even with his spew at her about me, she doesn't believe him (she lives with us so she would know). I think he resents me for this, but it's none of my doing. Grown adults have a mind of their own, we haven't influenced any of this.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16