Originally Posted By: HaWho


They are really thoughtful, good boys.

Sometimes it surprises me given the dysfunction going on down in that kooky dorm room. I hope it is true, for all our sakes that it just takes one strong parent to pull our kids through this hot mess. I see it happening in other threads and I remind myself of this constantly.


You should be proud of them HaWho, it sounds like they are doing really well.

I also hope that one parent can inspire a sense of security and break the cycle of dysfunctional relationships. I was really worried about that, and if I'm honest it is still my biggest worry (and the thing that I'm struggling to forgive H for the most), but seeing how happy my children are at the moment gives me strength.

I struggle to understand what goes through their MLC affectedminds, but I promised myself I would do the best for my kids, and at least that seems to be working.


"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"

“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask "What if I fall?"
Oh but my darling,
What if you fly?”

-Erin Hanson