I haven't been around the forums for a while, but I'm here today. I'm sorry to hear your situation hasn't gotten much better, Surfer...
I'm familiar with your financial problems though, I went through it all (and some) with my STBX. I don't know what a sunset clause is, and I know each state is different...
but Is your D filed yet? If it is, you can have your L draw up a TRO on financials and property assets, as well as a provisional that declares what bills you are responsibile for, which one she's responsible for, and also that "No more that $X can be withdrawn from any account within Y days time (say, a month)... I had to do this in my sitch... Just tell your lawyer you want a TRO and Provisional for bills/withdraws and they should know what to do...
