Don- It's a relief in a way to have someone understand quite what I am dealing with and where I am in life. On the other hand, I am sorry you are dealing with this too.
I'd hang out with you too, maybe I could even be your wing-woman! Just gotta be hoping there is a greater plan we can't see just yet!
JuJU- I'm glad to see you back, I know, a break is often needed from these boards. I keep saying I'm going to take one, but it's my break from work at work. Plus, the felp I get around here is absolutely invaluable. Thank you also for the nice words. I think of you the same way, and I know when the time comes, you will have no issues there either. I was talking with a friend about this area and the men...... I really do think I need a change of scenery. A friend of mine just made a big move, she's 35 and single, and finding a partner is a big reason why she did it. This tri state area is a B!tch to afford. You could work your butt off, make decent money and still not be able to purchase a decent dwelling. Wanna be roomates?lol!
So, I thought about it after talking with a friend. I won't be so "booked" in the upcoming months, so maybe I'll try a paid, decent dating website. Maybe I'll get lucky my millionth time around:)