Be the Don Equis guy - 'THE MOST INTERESTING MAN IN THE WORLD' Women faun to him. He could pick and choose his conquest for the night - if he wanted, which he was usually too busy to do. Like snorkeling the great barrier reef with the Dali Lama, or skiing down K2 with his trusty sherpa guides, as he has done dozens of time... you get my drift?
I think, as I'm trying to learn after D, that feelings take a while to dissipate, and they do cycle. Your hope went thru the roof. Push it back down, captain cool.
How to convince yourself, or work towards not needing her, is your goal. The best advice I've gotten is to work on what you've always wanted to do for yourself, and of course the hurt in your heart will still be there. But at least you'll have something to talk about with the other ladies, as they start to follow the laws of attraction, and want to hit on you! HA HA HA.
When you find the magic pill to take, let me know where I can buy some. still looking.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)