Taking the first step...

[Coly23]

Thanks again Job and AndrewP. I know I just have to be patient but it all seems so wrong. This person who was so in love with me is happy to not speak to me anymore. It's just so heartbreaking.

I am sure he will contact me soon because my D. his SD p, is ignoring his calls and texts at the moment and I think he will contact me soon to find out what is going on. She has made the decision on her own to go dark with me but I make sure she knows that her relationship is separate but I think she is just fed up of having to fit him in to her very busy teenage schedule!

AndrewP, I am sorry that it has been two months since you have heard from your W except of course for the times you mentioned. That must be tough. Is she still with OM? I know what you mean about not having much to say. I don't think there is anything I need to say to my H at the moment either so that is why it is a bit easier than I thought. I don't need him financially and I am getting on with house maintenance myself as he has never offered to help me with anything except at the start of our separation but in the end it was all lip service. I just don't bother asking anymore.

I don't really know how they sleep at night knowing what they have done....