I'm pretty xW was definitely depressed. Right before this all happened, she actually started looking for another job claiming that "working at a start up is more fun". When we were in counseling, she admitted that the majority of her social life was in response to "not having to deal with herself". But of course when asked about that, she'd bottle up immediately.
The real key for me and her work/social life was that there was definitely a real turning point between it being work...and it being her only point of origin for any activities. She pretty much dropped all interaction with her outside friends and started attending things she really didn't have to. The other big thing for me is purely the age thing. These people are in their early to mid-20's and up until the point when her social life really changed, she was acting for all intents and purposes as the 34 year old she was.
Thanks for the advice about looking in the mirror. I don't like who I am right now, I hate that I'm still replaying this over and over again just to find some sort of answer. And perhaps that's the real reason I'm here...to get some support to GAL and move on from this.
ME-37 W-34 T-8 M-4 ILYBNILWY BD: 8-31-2015 EA suspected - 11/1/15 PA confirmed - 1/22/16 W files for D - 2/4/16 D - 8/9/16
