Thank you for the quick response Job. I was thinking MLC too, but appreciate input with others with more experience. I am so thankful for all your insightful posts. It has been a tremendous help and very comforting during this difficult time.
I am trying very hard to switch gears and focus on me. I am working on identifying and fixing my issues. It is hard, emotionally taxing work.
I am also holding out hope for our marriage. He has repeatedly said he wants to divorce. I have tried to put it off in order to give things time. But he is on to me. I am not sure what to do. We are still living in our home and sleeping in separate rooms. Should I tell him, hey, if you want a divorce, go file (or something along those lines, but in a non-confrontational way).
