Bomb dropped

[ForGump]

The male co-worker being just a friend -- total B.S. But now that you know, do yourself a favor: stop spying on her. Spying is a deal with the devil. You gain some info but your pay for it with your soul -- you will be tortured.

Well, the whole situation is a torture -- we're all going through it. But I hope you find courage to rise above.

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