Now this is what I call PMA! I too have bad days but today is a good one and like you am telling myself what I have.
I actually lost H as I knew him over two years ago, even though he's only physically left six months ago.
I have a roof over my head, (while he pays the mortgage!) two fantastic children, lost weight and look better than I have in years and I like myself for the first time ever.
H was always the nice guy and I was always the not so nice one. Not anymore!