Breathe. All that up there ^^ good stuff and a better place to focus on than the alternative right?
About the weight thing .. I too lost a ton, 30 total pounds all said and felt good but horrible if you know what I mean. Unfortunately I put 20 of it back on .... kinda snuck up on me but I want to drop that 20 and this fat kid loves food so the struggle is always real
Its good you are getting your finances in order, I think for any LBS of a MLCr this is paramount ... things are stressful enough with all this one should lock the money down if at all possible.
Amy just know ... this is a long haul, best thing you really can do is turn your focus inward as impossible as that will be on days. Be the rock, for your D, yourself, and when if he ever needs it your H. Somewhere here there is a saying "I might quit .. but not today" ... this does get easier with time I promise you.
