Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

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I have a question in my last post. Can you help?

W moved out taking circa 50% of a lot of money I put in an account for her (a tax efficient savings account in her name) only she can access this. She has he ability to spend it all. She can spend this then D and take what she can from the rest of our assets - say 50%. She has talked about buying a house to the kids, but needs to D to do that. She has instigated mediation and I have completed my forms to move forward with this - but she has not. I don't know why. But we are all kind of in limbo. I don't want to D my W as its her journey, but I do think we need to move forward. Do I sit still as she fritters always £10's of thousands, get L to send a letter to say what is happening.....any views? I am sure when the money runs out I will become the bad man for not providing access to any more money etc. I am also providing her with roughly 50% of her take home money. Effectively I am paying for 2 houses and also giving her monthly income on top........thoughts on this???

Thank you.

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