She's the right age for peri-menopause which can trigger a whole lot of things as can the upcoming 50th birthday.

You may want to take Christy up on her offer - the people on the other end of that phone know a lot more than us amateur fellow sufferers who hang out here on the forum. Otherwise you may want to see what is available for you in terms of an IC - or do both.

It seems like you're generally doing the right thing by giving her space to work through her own issues. She's probably stewing in a boiling soup of hormones, depression and guilt.

How are you doing? Are you taking care of yourself? Are you working on being all that you can be? You'll need to be strong to make it through this - it may be a long hard road even though you've already been on it for a while. Keep posting and perhaps some others will chime in.


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