Not so lost now take 2

[twinmom]

He is trying to keep that last string of attachment to you. He doesn't want to completely let go of the past but is trying to also live his fantasy life.
I had a VERY hard time with my H texting me/calling almost every day for RANDOM things. Like we were friends or something while he was living with OW. A few of the vets had me "teaching" him when/how to contact me.
It helped to detach for me. I would ignore all texts & calls during the day and respond at night in a thorough email that addressed everything relevant.