Where am I now

[twinmom]

So basically you're saying he must spend his parenting time in a public place (restaurant) or your home?
I'm sorry Mia, but that's not fair to the kids. There is much to be gained for them to have a relaxing evening & bed time routine at their fathers.
And if I remember correctly he has them every other weekend & one evening during the week? How in the world is that MORE time than the law allows? As long as either parent isn't damaging to the child EACH parent should be given equal time!

Mia, I get it. You're defensive, I'm blunt and it might not be the best combo. But I can assure you I have been there emotionally, I do understand your anger but I FINALLY learned it wasn't productive. It took me a while though.

Someone else repeated a quote from a VERY wise person (I wish I could remember who said it)
"You can either be happy or you can be right"
Oh how this was hard but it's so true.



Back to you, what 180's are you working on? What GAL activities are you doing? What goals do you have for yourself?