I think you are mentally stuck in a rut about some type of action that will please your W. Whenever you relate the conversation, she has the same grips about you not doing enough at home and with the kids. I remember when you reported you were doing it all......yet, she was not satisfied. You said she was doing nothing and you were doing all the housework. So.......while reading this post, try to turn your attention away from her old excuses.
Let me tell you a little secret about women. When they are unhappy and/or dissatisfied, they may complain about non-abstract things when really it is abstract that's the issue. Instead of talking about emotional needs.....she talks about the lack of housework, etc. I rather doubt that is her true issue. If you feel you do your fair share........then don't fret over it and start spinning. Those are physical things, and right now......you need help with your emotional/mental self.
It is wonderful to hear you are going out with friends! Are these new friends? You need to enjoy yourself and have fun.
Have you found a psychologist? I hope you make this a priority.
((Ghost))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
