Coly23 - have either of you considered IC? Is you H open to that? It sounds like both of you have had a lot of stress and trauma that perhaps neither of you have had a great chance to process.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
