I can't really be as charitable about ow as you are about OM. She pursued W, filled her head with cr$p about me, and had no concern whatsoever about the fact that we all work together. W is somewhat prominent, so she's a bit of a prize. I think ow wanted to see if she could grab that prize. And ultimately, she seems to enjoy breaking people up, at least according to W.
Whatever... every day that I don't see her -- 4 now! -- it's better.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat