As said I have said no.....and for this I am thinking of our children as always. They have gotten used to this routine and there is no benefit to them to spend the night during a school week at his house.....
Interestingly , some thoughts ......h was taking the kids out for his usual evening Tuesday meal. I wasn't sure what time he was coming so I went to pick up our youngest from kids club. I beeped when I got there as h was there , but I beeped my son. Son came over but so did h all smiles etc talking to me like we were friends. I was neutral. Is this a positive step...or am I reading too much?