Maybs - Pt 4 - where to now?

[maybs]

Just let it play out. All that asking does is reinforce to her that she doesn't want to be with you.

I'm just curious on the thought process behind this. How does me asking her about it at this stage reinforce she doesn't want me?

I feel really conflicted because honestly I'm not sure she does know she could come home if she wanted to. I'm not sure she knows that door is unlocked for her.

And I mean our D will be final like any day basically, and I know I know "it's only a piece of paper" but to me it isn't just a piece of paper! For me I'm not sure there's a way I could EVER go back once this is finalized.

And what if she does have doubts or is unsure and just doesn't know that there even is a path home.