Wife wants to separate at end of school year # 2

[AndrewP]

Bhuda1 - I just noticed your thread for the first time. Living in limbo is a difficult position. I do confess that I've only browsed through to get some highlights. If I understand it correctly:
- Your W was unhappy with the MR abut a year ago and said she wanted out
- You've detached and withdrawn most affection from her
- You're working hard on improving yourself and those things that your W was upset with
- There is no indication of her having an A
- She seems largely happy with how things are going and isn't pushing for any changes
- You say that her leaving "may be inevitable" but she's not appearing to be making any move towards the exit nor is she pushing you out.

Are these the general facts of the situation?

One thing that I haven't seen - have either of you attended counseling? Have you considered marriage counseling?