Many happy belated returns Cali. I'm sorry to hear about the D papers and it wasn't great timing. I got notification they were on their way to me the day after our anniversary - and I was always glad it wasn't on the actual day (small blessings...)

I'll just say this - you are a champ, and reading your sitch helps illustrate how this unasked for journey becomes what you make of it. And you have made a lot of it and given a lot to others too. I truly think your W is daft to give you up - but there we are...

Take care my friend...and remember to keep being awesome xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus