Happy birthday. I don't think I have ever posted to you, but I loved reading your advice when you posted to those in newcomers.

I particularly liked your traits tool. OK I realise you found it somewhere too, but I heard it first from you. I made the three lists and am slowly. V slowly..... making those changes. I will post about that soon on my threadbut wanted to thank you for the time you put into helping others here; kus being an inspiration in your own thread.

I wish you well.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together