At soccer game when D6 comes to sit on my lap (with exW and OW sitting not far away and when it's exW's week) and says "I miss when you and mommy lived together in the same house..." Because I have no words... I miss that too... And of course the kids miss it because life was good and until the last few months of that life, life was really good and the house was filled with happiness and love for so many years... Before the MLC storm hit and disrupted everything...
I say to her "I know. But everything is going to be okay." And I truly believe that... But inside I think "Yes baby, I miss that too."
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015