Still waiting in limbo and I hate it. I believe she is waiting for me to start the conversation, as I have always done in the past. Which of coarse has never accomplished anything positive.
I admit I am tired of the situation. All interaction is positive. All conversations have been cordial although on occasion she has said things which I believe are meant to belittle me and get me to reacted offensively. I don't take the bait
I let it slide. Once I did ask her not to be "snarky". If that is actually a word and left it at all that.
I sometimes want to force her hand and ask her to "[censored] or get off the pot". Excuse my language but I am tired of the living arrangements. If she wants to live here it should not be as a room mate but as a wife. A little respect for my feelings would be nice. I won't kick her out but she is not being fair to me and if she truly wants out, she is not being fair to herself. I suspect the only reason she hasn't left is because of the kids. I know our kids will be better off with parents who are married because they want to be, not because of the kids.
I realize that her leaving may be inevitable. As much as I want her here, I think it would be better for her to get a real taste of separation and actually left.
Any ideas how to get her to initiate a marriage conversation. If she doesn't I may have to and I know it's taboo in the divo cue busting play book
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
