A WW? (5)

[DonH]

Lt, I'm very sorry to hear what happened, I really am. I know what it's like to go through what you just did. So I get it and don't want to heep more on you here. At the same time I'm really afraid if you don't take charge here your W is going to walk all over you on this.

First of all, did you set up this councilor or did W? I thought it was you but sounds like it could Have been her? Did you check out this MC at all? If not, why the hell not? You just rolled the dice on it being the right fit? MWD talks about this in her books. You have to get a pro M MC or you now see what can happens! I feel so bad for you but at the same time want to shake you and wake you up here. Don't let W decide YOUR future. For one, DO NOT MOVE OUT. Do you hear me? If W wants to S let her go. Stop doing ANYTHING for her. It's now your life and she doesn't matter anymore than a stranger walking the street. You must co parent for D but that's it. The rest is your life. I almost think that years from now you'll see. How lucky you are to be free if her crazy. But until then you must protect yourself and D. Odd enough standing up for yourself may be what turns this around should you still want that. You have to be in the driver seat. W has to get out. Make her run her life. Make her pay her way. Make her find a place too live. Call your L right away or W will orchestrate how this goes and not you

Again, I feel for you. I really do but it's now time to man up, GaL and show your W what life on her own is like.