Your D wouldn't want to be around you at all if she had any of the feelings for you your W says she does. Believe that, because it is true. She wants to be around you because she loves you and because you're a good father.

That a trained therapist, meeting your W for the first time, is able to conclude she has anger issues, is telling.

Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)