FG, win-win in a negotiation does not always mean even distribution. Think about this statement when the time comes. Maybe even research "integrative negotiation". It may help you, it should help you. Anyway, I know the time may not be now and I wish I had time to explain more, but check it out.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6