You have absolutely nailed it. My W was the former tonight (and naturally is) after being so nice earlier (roller coaster etc). I am definitely the latter. It might be that my MIL was there gave me a lovely cuddle and a kiss when I saw her and one when I left. W wants the rewritten history to work. Clearly it's not.....I was just me, kind, nice, talked fun - normal.
S6 was all 'Daddy, I wanted you to come' he was so chuffed. Going every week now! I can't not. Bless him.
Just always got to be the best version of you and you are being that. Well done!
Surfer.
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