FG - So sorry you are in this situation, it definitely is a process - curious how the DIY works out for you, most of the advice on here is to seek legal council but outside this forum many have suggested saving the $ as lawyers only make it that much more stressful and can really spoil what if any civility you have between you. If it can be done mutually and respectfully all the power to you! If it comes to that between my W and I I'm hoping we can settle civilly. I've seen it first hand with friends who barely talk now with each other.

Albac- I like you have found that coming back here, while supportive, can also stir up more negative emotions in reading through all the pain others are going through. But if we can help in anyway...


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17