I would not go as far as to say I enjoyed myself. I had a better time than I thought I would. I met up with an old acquaintance so that was cool. Meal was good, the beer too. All free! Plus I negotiated a discount on my supplies. So loads of good points.

If your questions are to check if I am a mingler or kober, I am not the best mingler in the world, though sometimes I really do it well.

And yes, unfortunately or fortunately there is no rush. I have time!! Realising this is great to not pressure myself over it.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together